Spring Sprint

I (Kirk) am going to be participating in the 2012 Sprint Sprint in Saskatoon in support of the Brain Tumour Foundation. The Brain Tumour Foundation has been a wonderful support to us these past two years - they have excellent handbooks for brain tumour patients and families, and the support group in Saskatoon is fantastic - so we'd like to be able to give back to them. This is the same event that Kol gave a speech at last year, and had so much fun running with some friends from the Foundation.

If you'd like to, you can donate online to pledge me - I plan to walk (definitely not run!) at least the 2.5km, and depending on how much it's raining, I may even do the full 5km. I know many have already donated to the Brain Tumour Foundation in Kol's memory, and this is very last minute, but thank you for any support you can give. If you're in Outlook or Saskatoon and would rather not use the online donation system, please give me a call and we'll see what we can work out.

P.S. - now that we're back from our family getaway at Christopher Lake, we've got some more blog posts coming over the next couple days. I guess we missed blogging!

Thank you

For two years, and especially for the past week, you have supported us, given us encouragement and comfort, prayed for and with us, and shared your love with us. We've said it before, but it bears saying again - thank you all so incredibly much for everything you have done for Kolbjorn and for our family. Some people have told us how strong we have been, but all I can say is that it's easy to look strong when we have so very many people holding us up. The local newspaper ran a tribute to Kol, calling him "the boy who lifted a town", but at the same time, the town and our community of friends and family across the country and around the world lifted us.

Kol's funeral was yesterday. As hard as it was to say goodbye to Kol, we rejoice that he is no longer in pain, and it was so absolutely uplifting to be able to connect with so many friends and family, to be able to share hugs, laughter, and tears with you. It was a big step in the healing process for us, an process that will be ongoing for some time.

Some have asked about the future of this blog, now that Kol is gone. We want to assure you that we intend to keep blogging - obviously the focus will change from Kolbjorn's journey to our family's journey, the updates will likely not be as urgent, but we have appreciated having this place to communicate with our friends and family. Over the next week or so, we'll be catching up on some much-needed downtime with our family, so we probably won't blog much for a while, but we will be back. Kristen, for one, has too many things to say (or at least that's what she tells me).

Again, thank you all so very much for all that you've done for Kol and for us, and please continue to keep us in your prayers. May God bless you and keep you, and we'll talk to you soon.

Kirk, Kristen, Julianna, Mari, Birgitte, and Annika Friggstad

Obituary, viewing, and thanks

Just a few things we'd like to let you all know about:

• Kol's obituary appeared in the Saskatoon Star Phoenix Thursday morning - I'm not sure if it will appear in the Friday edition as well, but it can be viewed online as well.
• There will be a viewing and short prayer service on Saturday at 11:00am at the church, for family and for anyone who would like to attend. The casket will remain open until shortly before the funeral service begins at 2:00pm.
• If you need a place to stay in Outlook, a number of people have offered their homes - please let us know and we'll help you find a bed.
• If you don't know how to get to the church, please be aware that Google Maps shows it in the wrong spot - it should be at the corner of Ash Street and 4th Avenue, further north than where Google puts it.

Thank you all so much for your comments, emails, cards, letters, flowers, food, phone calls, hugs, and prayers. As sad as we are to be separated from Kol, we are so glad to be part of such a caring and loving community - not only our local community here in Outlook, but all our friends, family, and supporters throughout the province, across Canada and the USA, and around the world. We are blessed by you. Thank you again so very much.

Funeral details

Kol's funeral will be this Saturday, May 26, 2:00pm at Bethlehem Lutheran Church in Outlook. Please join us as we celebrate Kol's life, and take time to say good-bye to him. Children are more than welcome too.

Good-night, sweet prince.

Kol passed away quietly around 9:10pm tonight, in our van, on our way home to Outlook, surrounded by his loving family. We are now home in Outlook, with our families either already here or on their way. Thank you all so much for your continued prayers and support. We thank God that Kol is free from pain and suffering. And we thank God for his promises to comfort and sustain us through the trials of life. Amen.

Soon, and very soon

Kol is fading quickly. The doctors say it may be hours, it may be days, but it probably won't be weeks. After his seizure this morning, Kol had a brief time awake, but hasn't opened his eyes since. He is showing signs of neurological decline, and his breathing is becoming irregular and laboured. We are taking him home to Outlook tonight, with medicine and supplies to keep him comfortable. We ask for your prayers for Kol and for our family.

Complications

Kol had a rough night in the hospital. Despite getting IV meds for pain and nausea, he still threw up a few times, and still appears to be in pain - it's hard to say for sure, as he has been quite "non-verbal" most of the time.

Then this morning, Kol had what appeared to be a seizure - his body got very stiff and his eyes rolled up. His doctors say this is likely due to the tumour putting pressure on the brain, and are recommending adding anti-seizure medications to the painkiller and anti-nausea drugs that he's already getting. He has also been moved from his room on the ward to a room in observation, as some of the new meds need to be watched closely at first.

This also means that our "overnight" stay is being extended at least one more night. We're hoping and praying that it won't get any longer than that. Thank you all much for your prayers and support.

Another hospital admission

The last few days have again been up and down.  Friday and Saturday were both very good days.  Today, however, Kol's vomiting got worse again, and he wasn't able to keep the anti-nausea medications in his system.  Without anti-nausea medications, the pain medication won't stay down, either.  We talked with Kol's doctors, and have decided to take Kol back to RUH so we can get him stabilized with iv meds.   This way, we can get Kol's pain under control faster, and he should be feeling better within a day. The doctor assures us that Kol will only be in hospital overnight. 

We are just packing up the van, and will be leaving shortly.  The girls are coming to Saskatoon with us, and will be hanging out at grandma and grandpa's house for a while. 

A Superhero Named Kol

Hey everyone reading this. This is Julianna and Mari, Kol's big sisters. Tonight Kol told mom he was feeling like a 'small, tiny, mite', and that he wanted to be a superhero. We're going to show him that he is a superhero! Contact us or Mom/Dad however you want, or leave a comment below, and let us know why you think he's a superhero. We'll put all your responses, and any bible verses you want us to, into a slide show and surprise him. You can choose whether you want your name in it, or if you want to be anonymous. This is a surprise for Kol, so we would appreciate it if no one told him anything about it!

Julianna and Mari

Prayer for healing

I am constantly overwhelmed and surprised at the love and support that we have been given while on this journey through childhood brain cancer.  Both Kirk and I were surprised at how many people came out to Outlook - many of whom drove quite a long way, and many of whom we haven't seen in years - just to gather to pray.  We're honoured that so many people made the effort to come pray for healing.  It was so appreciated.  Thank-you from the bottom of our hearts.  Thank-you also to those who couldn't come, but took the time to pray for Kol wherever you were.  Thank-you also to everyone who fasted and spent time in personal prayer in the time leading up to the healing service.

It was also a privilege for us be able to share the time with others in need of prayer, and to be able to pray for their needs as well.  It's comforting knowing that we can cling to God's promises, and trust that He who created the world, the God of Jacob, our Heavenly Father, will answer. 

Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.  James 5:13 - 16

Above all, we thank God for hearing our prayers; for the healing He has done already in Kol's life; for bringing so many people, from all over the world and from diverse backgrounds together in a common purpose; for the lives that have been touched and changed through hearing Kol's story; for the plans He has for Kol's future.